Ya Allah sukar betul nak bertindak sendirian ni. Ada suami mestilah kene ikut cakap suami kan. Saya sebenarnya, seboleh-bolehnya nak segera buat pemeriksaan. I really wanted to know if I have any fertility problem. Tapi suami tak nak buat sekarang. Dia nak jugak tunggu usia perkahwinan kami genap setahun.
Dia yakin benar saya boleh concieve sementara tunggu our first anniversary ni. Pada saya tak ada beza pun kalau mula sekarang atau tunggu lagi tiga bulan.
Hmm semoga Allah beri petunjuk pada kami apa yang terbaik.
I wish other TTCians berjaya dalam usaha korang mendapatkan anugerah Allah yang satu itu (zuriat)
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Kalau nak buat treatment di LPPKN better call sekarang sebab appointment pun bukannya terus dapat...ambil masa 3-4 bulan juga nak dpt appointment...tak payah tunggu lama2 sebab kalau dah hampir setahun x conceive2 tu mungkin ada masalah dengan diri kita walaupun kecil. Pujuk suami k :)
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ReplyDeleteI suggest...cuba u buat sorg dulu??.. pd pendapat I,lelaki jrg amik port hal2 mcm ni...ape2 pon pompuan jugak yg dijadikan alasan...
boleh buat treatment utk isteri je ke Syazni? Kalau kat LPPKN dia soh dtg suami isteri. Tp lelaki mmg mcm tu, buat rileks je. Suami saya dulu x brp kisah nak ikut treatment tp sekarang ni bila soh usaha makan macam2 ubat macam saya makan, dia tak nak. Saya je yg nak kena tanggung sorang2 :(
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ReplyDeletekalau treatment mmg kena husband & wife...suami saya pon mcm tu jugak, katanya yg selalu masalah ni pompuan atas alasan period xbetul la...xsubur la...mcm saya penah check sorg2,just scan,then amik darah segala bagai semua....mcm saya doktor ckp darah kami tak serasi...;((
dia nak honeymoon dulu la tu...lek lek dulu... :D
ReplyDeleteAtie, nina dah 7bln kawin n stay dgn husband under 1 roof.period nina dh mmg haywire sejak sblm kawin.ramai yg suggest utk jmpa Dr kalau 6bln kawin + tinggal bersama tp still x conceive. 30 jan ni 1st meeting nina dgn gynae.
ReplyDelete>> Atie, boleh jumpe Dr. Minta consultation. Yg penting, kita ikhtiar selagi yg mampu. (=
You all macam-macam pendapat ada kan...I think he's just not ready. He really really really really believe that I DO NOT HAVE ANY FERTILITY PROBLEM and I don't need any treatment. Memang rasa relief and happy dia percaya I sihat but kami dah kawin almost 1 year dan duduk in 1 roof. Lagi 3 bulan je genap setahun.
ReplyDeleteI tak rasa dia yang ada masalah. I rasa I yang ada masalah. Well you all semua tahu kan I am not overweight but I am obese. Obese boleh mengandung ke? Eventhough my period just doing fine tapi may be I have other problem (s) that I never notice before this.
Well LCDP, like u said, bulan 3 ni we planning nak pergi honeymoon. He told me selepas pergi honeymoon tu kalau nak seek for treatment, then go on. But to me lambatnye la nak tunggu bulan 3 kan...
But I ada soalan nak tanya ni,if I am interested nak buat appointment at any OB/GYN clinics or hospitals, akan ambil masa lama ke untuk dapatkan appointment like Hanie said LPPKN sampai 3-4 bulan tunggu baru dapat. Tempat lain macam mana pulak ye? Nina pergi hospital/clinic mana yer?
Atie, 3 months is not that long... pejam celik, pejam celik dah abis 3 bulan tu. Usually, doc sarankan kalau after 1 year kahwin & tinggal sebumbung masih x conceive, baru pi buat pemeriksaan. Unless your period memang ting tong habis and there is indicator that you might have problem with your reproductive health (senggugut teruk, sakit ari2 yg melampau etc). Otherwise, take this time to enjoy your married life :-) or bleh join my 90 days challenge tu :-) ehhehehe...
ReplyDeleteAtie, nina gi klinik panak o&g hosp batu pahat je. Baru nk buat consultation this 30 jan.
ReplyDeleteNina rasa mcm dah lama xde egg white discharge. Do u think that is anovulation? )=
Atie, i bace ape u tulis kat komen2 atas ni pelbagai assumption u buat psl diri u sendri. hehe its okay i pun dulu mcm tu. sbb kurang pengalaman sbb baru2 je ttc kan. kalau u subscribe channel DH&H 733 astro, u'll be amazed brapa byk pompuan obese yang pregnant. tapi its not easy lah sbb mcm2 penyakit masa pgnant mmg bahaya. risiko tinggi kat baby n urself tapi kalau tuhan kata kunfayakun, org yg tube kena ikat pun pregnant (pun i tgk kat DH&H channel gak) u should subsribe that channel so byk info u akan dpt. kat klinik2 ibu mengandung ramai je pompuan mengandung dan obese. ada org obese tu penyebab tapi ada org yg selamba je bole mengandung dan obese. doc suruh turunkan berat bdn utk yg TTC sebab peratus nak mengandung lagi tinggi after berat badan dah turun. doc nak suruh kita sihat dulu.
ReplyDeleteone more, dont just 'think' that ur hubby takde prob. i mean, its good that u think positive pasal dia. but without any test, u cannot be that sure. takde bukti yg die takde problem, so are u. both of u have to run few tests to see whats the problem. Test je, it took only 1 day or 2days to see the result. bayar pun taksampai RM90 pun klinik swasta for sperm test. kalau dah tau result, senang then ur hubby cuma perlu support u je :) tapi bila dua2 pun clueless, its not worth to just 'think' that he's not with the problem and u are the only problem. it doesnt work that way. both of u perlu check dulu k? sebab kalau husband u takpenah check, u akan buang masa consume all those fertility pills alone, tibe2 dah 2 3 tahun rupenye2 die pun ada prob! (ni doc yg citer sbb ada patient mcm tu) so kan dah buang masa? so better both of u check sama2 k.
lppkn i takpenah pegi tapi i rasa diorg taklayan org yg baru taksampai setahun kawin. 3 tahun baru diorg layan. i rase la but maybe x smua cawangan kot. u go and ask first k.
and then u mentioned about u dah lama takjumpe eggwhite, trust me i never found eggwhite too. eggwhite is just a characteristic of our mucus, tak smua wanita sama. my fren ada 3 org anak dan mucus dia slalu kering. dia sendri takreti nak distinguish egg white n normal mucus. she said all is the same. i pun sama. i conceive kali ni without egg white. just watery discharge. tak egg white pun. it doesnt indicated that u really ovulate or not. kalau u ckp dgn doc pun, doc akan kata 'tak semestinya'. prove utk ovulate ialah u MUST have healthy eggs yg atleast 18mm. kalau size kurang dari itu, u may not ovulate. doc takpenah check our mucus utk tahu kite ovulate atau subur. its just a 'sign' but some women have eggwhites and NOT ovulate.
some couple dont have any problems pun atie. dua2 subur. both have healthy benih. period tepat setiap bulan. but takpenah conceive bertahun2. so semua ni terpulang pada Allah swt. yg penting, mesti usaha. dua2 mesti usaha k ;) i wish u all the best n dont give up tau ;)
oh i salah yg ckp psl eggwhite is not u, its nina. my bad! hehehe so the last 2 paragraph of my long comment goes for nina aman eh. not atie. sorry atie :D (tulisan komen u ni bergulung2 taknampak name betul2 hehehe i dah ler rabun) :P
ReplyDeletekalau nak pegi hospital swasta biasenye terus leh jumpa doc je. ada yg perlu apoinment by phone. tapi it wont take berbulan2. biasenye kalau nak jumpe esok, harini boleh call, kalau penuh leh pospon tarikh yg doc free. spital/klinik gomen yg kene tunggu berbulan2. that's why i takpenah pegi gomen sbb malas tunggu turn. huhuhu
ReplyDeletedont wait! once u dah jumpe doc, nnt u akan get some ideas on what is ur prob and how to solve it ;)
Thanks Jay. About treatment tu I agree both husband and wife kene cek. It so true problems may come from husband or wife. Sebab nak sedapkan hati sendiri I kata dia ok, I yang tak ok. I tak mau dia kecil hati kalau dia baca ni. Walau pun kenyataannya memang kedua-duanya perlu cek. Macam mana pun kedua-dua kena bagi sokongan kepada pasangan masing-masing tak kira siapa yang ada masalah.
ReplyDeleteTo met tentang eggwhites tu I tak menggunakannya sebagai tanda yang I ovulate. I do prefer using OPK. Kalau dpt pengesahan Dr yang kita ada telur besar2 tu kene invest lebih sikit la kan. Beside that, nak monitor guna fertility monitor pun boleh tapi harga sangat mahal la. US dollar pun dah 200 lebih. Duit kita mungkin RM700-800. Kat Amazon.com ada jual dan harga murah sikit. Kat Malaysia tak sure ada ke tak tapi I pergi kat Guardian dekat dengan rumah I diorang tak de jual. Eggwhite kalau keluar waktu kita subur tu pada I kira syukur la however, its existance doesn't really show that we are ovulated. Kalau ada tu kira bagus la. Nina, boleh guna OPK test untuk memdapatkan kepastian. Fertility Monitor by Clearblue pun boleh. Sekarang dah plan jumpa gyne kan. Boleh refer kat dia.
Then, semenjak I buat BBT chart, I dapat kesan yang miss V memang akan start watery and produce eggwhite waktu hampir nak subur dan hari subur. Semasa nak period pun akan watery jugak. Semua tu related to our hormones tau...Hormon apa yang keluar (Proges or Estro), apa yang hormon tu buat, apa mesej yang otak kita bagi. All related. Lain orang rasa lain kan..mungkin disebabkan jumlah hormon masing2 berbeza2. Jumlah hormon pun related to many thing jugak like kandungan lemak dalam badan dan macam-macam lagi.
Sekarang ni it is better for me and hubby seek for Dr. Jay, u live somewhere kat Shah Alam jugak kan? Any recommendation which hospital I should go?
yeah, its true that the mucus somehow related to our hormones as well, kalau u notice body u mmg mcm tu, lagi senang n lagi bagus! senang u nak tau waktu subur nnt :)
ReplyDeleteooo u stay kat s.alam gak keee...try DEMC and look for Dr Zamri. buat appoinment dgn dia. gynae ada ramai katsitu tapi Dr Zamri ni pakar reproductive medicine & gynae jugak la. kalau taknak doc laki, gynae perempuan ramai kat DEMC, semua bagus2. pilih je mana nak :) go to DEMC website for more info k? www.demc.com.my
hi atie, ni just my opinion and experience la. since u kawin belum sampai setahun lagi, it's ok to wait for the few more months baru start check up.
ReplyDeletereason being, grace period utk non protected sex to conceive pun around one-two years. bila kita kawin, sedar x sedar hormon badan kita berubah. so nak adjust dgn keadaan it takes time. x semua yg berjaya dengan sekali dua make love utk conceive.
i dulu mcm tu juga. eager sgt nk pergi check cepat2. hubby i x halang tp dia x brp nk support sbb dia ckp baru lagi. yg dia paling support is for me to exercise.. to keep fit, to lost weight. i pun obese. sbb i rendah so my weight mmg x sesuai dgn i.
kesedaran utk lost weight tu lambat dtg so i main2 je awal2 tu. bila kesedaran tu dah dtg baru i exercise and jaga mkn dgn jayanya.
my hubby ckp kalau i proceed buat treatment etc, tp badan i x boleh nak support, sama juga. so dia suruh buat natural way dulu baru after one year go for consultation.
one thing, i kalau my husband x support apa2 i nak buat i kurang bersemangat. so i x nak kalau i proceed without his consent nanti x leh nak citer2 etc. so i pun hold dulu. i just exercise je. yg ni mmg dia sgt supportive la so kitaorg mmg gi gym sama2 etc.
lepas setahun ++ pun the only thing yg i buat was to check my progesterone hormon. ni pun x plan sbb my GP yg buat kan. bukan gynae. but hubby ok je sbb dah setahun lebih kan masa ni. and dia mmg dah ready kalau kena buat sperm test etc.
i was asked to be on clomid juga. tp x sempat. it's all about timing (and rezeki). it's ok to wait just after one year. at least u have ur husband to support u all the way drpd sorang2 skrg ni.
Dr ckap if 6 bulan still xbleh nak pregnant maknanya kita dh kena start jumpa doc.Sy 9 bulan lepas kawin terus jmpa doc,time 2 dr xcheck pun pihak lelaki dr akan check prempuan dlu..Sy buat DEMC kos pun xmahal sangat below 200.
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